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Anti-Semitism, Relationship, Decision to Leave, Starting Over

Sima Shumilovsky  .jpeg

“If somebody had a bigger apartment-bigger room-this family would be the poor family because they would always have the entire family use their apartment for weddings! My mother’s cousin-Aunt Clara-had one room, but it was huge, and every wedding, anniversary, birthday was held there. It’s like a normal thing. You come and say, ‘O.K., we have a date coming, we use your room.’ Of course, it wasn’t everywhere like this, but our family was very friendly and close.”

- Sima Shumilovsky

Sima Shumilovsky on left and sister Emmilia Kogan

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“My mother was the first one in our family who wanted to go and who actually made the preparations. She is a very energetic person. We went quickly to get an application, to stand in line…My father felt terrible. He was lying on the couch all the time, so depressed. I think he thought it was the end of his life. On the one hand he understood there was no future in Russia; on the other hand, he spent all his life there …

I do not think I will fit in for the rest of my life one hWldred percent, but a lot is changing and probably I myself will change more. Most people never think about the language, about differences in cultures. It’s one thing to Wlderstand there’s a difference, but another thing to actually live it. So, I don’t think we’ll ever fit in, but we can get used to it, we can adapt, and my daughter is already American.”

- Nadia Smirnov

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